Malcolm's Funeral
Weird phrase that 'passed away'. It implies peace and gentleness. I've no idea how painful Malcolm's last moments were, but I hope that he passed gently into the night (see Dylan Thomas).
Gill and I went down and stopped with Jon and Trish. Jon and I went to the funeral. The word 'lovely' is wrong, but if a funeral can be lovely, Malcolm's was. He had many, many friends and pretty much the whole of the Maidenhead engineering team turned up. There were really moving tributes from his friends, the most poignant of which was Keith's. I cried like a baby* but felt better for going. Somehow, being there was important. Don't ask me why, I simply don't know. One thing really stood out - Malcolm never had a bad word for anyone. A remarkable generosity of spirit. I hope that I remember him through the years; he was a gentle man.
We ended up going out to eat with Jon and Trish and their family, so somehow the day was a lovely mixture of relaxing with friends and a fond farewell.
* Actually, that's wrong. I cried like a man.

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